Words Of Sympathy
2:06 pm in Common Use by Word Dissection
When tragedy befalls other people, we are usually eager to, as well as socially required to, express our regrets. Those regrets are often termed “words of sympathy.” Most commonly, words of sympathy are used in reference to death, although they may refer to sickness or other unfortunate circumstances. They are meant to be a show of support for the individuals going through rough times. It is very important to show support to others, when they need it. Our social systems depend on our humanity, and our humanity is reinforced by good social systems.
Good communication is the key to our social systems’ ability to support us. Our choice of words affects our communication and that includes our choice of words of sympathy. It is often difficult for many people to know what to say to others who have had a tragedy occur in their lives. They may feel another person’s grief, feelings or pain but have a hard time coming up with the words to express this. Having a repertoire of “words of sympathy” can only enhance their ability to communicate with the people going through the tragedy. And communication in this instance is of the utmost importance. Most people greatly appreciate the effort made to help them feel better in times of tragedy, even when they are otherwise preoccupied or may be so grief stricken that they can’t respond. It is definitely worth the effort to offer sympathy.
Some common words of sympathy are: condolences, sympathy, sympathetic, empathize, commiserate, compassion, regrets, sorry, memories and others. These words are generally made up of a root word and a prefix and/or suffix, and they can be dismantled into their component parts, which easily show their meaning. Many words of sympathy have a prefix such as co, con, com or sym, which means together. Such togetherness is entirely befitting with the intentions behind using these words. Examples of these words are compassion, commiserate and condolences.
Compassion
Com: with or together
-passion: powerful or compelling feelings
She showed compassion for the injured man by calling for help.
Commiserate
Co: together, jointly
-misery: distress, suffering
He commiserated with the family about their ordeal.
Condolences
Con: together or with
-dolour: grief or sorrow
The neighbors expressed their condolences to the family of the deceased.